so i met this guy. it very complicated. so long story short. he cheated on his girlfriend with me but i never knew that they were still together he clearly told me that they broke up. its not until i found out from a friend that he was seeing me and his previous gf. so i caught him. he tried very hard to get me while he got back with his ex. he told me he loved me and that romantic crap. then when i found out he was cheating. he chose to stay with the girl he cheated on with instead of me. why?
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Comfort. He's already put in the work of getting into a relationship with her and they have a history. He doesn't need to build anything new with her, and he can probably get away with a lot more with her. He cheats because he's not in love with her and/or simply isn't a loyal person. He stays because he can get the best of both worlds this way.1