I would like to try a social experiment and see how each race likes to be approached. Mention your race and mention how you like being approached.
I've asked the following questions which didn't help me go anywhere: What kind of music do you like? What kind of movies do you like? What do you like to do for fun in your spare time? Would you like to go to a club to bump and grind? What's poppin? I'm artsy too. I'm into graphic design and I practice playing the electric guitar. What kind of art are you into besides tattoos?
I noticed a woman say that she loves scuba diving so I asked if she could take me scuba diving. I mentioned to a woman that she should try Taco Pizza which is better than the pizza that was in her picture. There was a woman that mentioned she liked skinny dipping so I asked her where is a good place to go skinny dipping? None of those worked either.
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As you can see in my profile picture, I'm white as snow... ok, maybe like snow sprinkled with peach ice tea, but you get my point.
The one time I registered at a dating site was for 12 hours or so, then I deleted my profile. I didn't get any messages during that period and most guys' profiles were effectively repellent. Anyway, when you message someone, remember that the burden of the first impression is on you - since you've spotted her profile, she's already had her chance, so now it's your time for self-introduction. Instead of asking details about her, tell her something interesting about yourself, preferably touching upon what she wrote in her profile (you can't COMPLETELY disregard that, after all). Like: "hey, I'm X. I like this and that, actually I've been interested in that for years now. This, on the other hand, is sort of a side passion of mine... I noticed that you like it, though. Could you tell me something about it?". You already establish yourself not only as your own man who's dedicated to his hobbies, but as a curious one at that.0
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