I recently saw a guy I haven't seen in 9 months because he had been trying to contact me again, I had been out of the country for a long time. things ended between us because it was a non committed relationship, and then he got jealous and just wouldn't talk to me so I told him to just forget my number. We had a really great time the other day when we met up to talk and walk around a park together (I insisted we meet during the day). he was incredibly nice and gentlemanly. I hit my knee, he kissed it to "make it better" he held me close whenever a car drove by, asked a lot about my life and he told me a lot about what had been going on with his. he didn't mention sex at all, but I started making out with him when we got back to his place, I was a total tease. I also got way too stoned off only one hit of pot and acted really nervous when he said bye, and that it was really great to see me. I think I was insisting on knowing when I would hear from him again. he told me "maybe that's why it didn't work out before." before this, inside, he told me he liked me but when I asked him what he wanted he said he didn't know. what should I make of this? i told him I want to see him but feel weird, so he told me to call when I didn't feel like that anymore.
Could this mean he wants a relationship now?
What Guys Said 1
It certainly appears to have been leaning towards that direction. However, I ask of you this, why did you tease the guy sexually when he clearly made an attempt to convince you that his interest in you lie beyond sex?
Incidentally, by insisting on knowing when you would hear from again, you perhaps appeared somewhat desperate.
After, you asked him, yet again, what he wanted. His response, after just witnessing your insecurity and persistence was, "I don't know." And appropriately so. Just relax, and flow with the go. The guy seems interested in a relationship.0
What Girls Said 1
Just don't come across needy and desperate, if you've already teased him maybe he's putting on the smooth moves cause he's nearly got you where he wants you. If he rings or text maybe take your time in replying you don't want him the think your waiting by the phone, maybe let him chase you a little, let him know you have a life and not all for him - if he wants you let him come get you0
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