I have this friend who has been dating this guy who is in my opinion a loser and she can do WAY better. Ok well here it is this fool is on Parole, sells drugs, has no real ambition in life or plan for his life. He is selfish and asks her for money to buy food, gets mad at her if she doesn't go see him when she doesn't have a car BUT HE DOES. They unfortunately had to have an abortion and the night before she was due to have it he was with another girl didn't call her the morning off the abortion, didn't go with her, wasn't there to take care of her afterwards. NOTHING. He said he didn't call because he wasn't sure if she was going and he went with that girl because he needed to vent and nothing happened...RIGHT.He has her all f***ed up in the head thinking she is doing all the wrong. She swept his kitchen and the next day called her to tell her it wasn't done right. He tells her she doesn't do anything for him blah blah blah. Please tell me your opinion. MEN ONLY
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she needs to simply realize that his life is headed nowhere and if she sticks with him she will go there with him.
There are a ton of guys out there who have bright futures and great personalities so there is no reason for any girl to date any person like him.
psychology says that girl who date guys like this have most likely been through some kind of trauma in their past and will continue this pattern of dating guys similar to this one, by realizing this and ONLY by her realizing and WANTING to change this about her , will she ever break the cycle.0