i got busted for selling weed when I was 18 and trafficking narcotics in Niagara Falls when I was 21.
I also shoplifted a ps3 from an electronics store when I was 16 and have a pending aggravated assault charge. I also got a couple DUIs..
I don't live that life anymore and am going to college now b/c I want a stable career and a woman in my life to keep me balanced.
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Some of that I could overlook.
The DUIs? Would depend how far over the limit you were. If it was a case you were slightly over, it may be you didn't quite know your limit so far enough. If you were absolutely hammered and endangered lives... no.
The assault charge? No. As soon as violence is involved, that's a dealbreaker for me. In my mind, if it was okay to do it to someone else, it'll be okay to do to me. I don't want a violent relationship.
I think you'd need to show serious change, like maybe going to a help group, something like that. Getting to college and a good job is an excellent step and would definitely make me consider you. Until I saw redemption for the violence though... not a chance.1