Ok so the guy im talking to we talk more often and I notice he's friends with my exboyfriend (we dated for two years, on and off.. but nothing serious.. he played me but I dumped him so he might have harsh feelings) I HAD NO IDEA THEY WERE FRIENDS until I saw a tweet of his asking my ex to go to the gym. Should I tell him or would it ruin everything? I don't want it to be a surprise but we just started talking and I don't want to screw things up!
- Tell him while we're getting to know eachotherVote A
- Dont tell him until we get more seriousVote B
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Ask yourself first these questions, Are you looking for a serious relationship? Is he worth it? It is better to tell him now than to wait. Put everything on he table and then see if he stills wants to eat it. If you wait until you get serious and then tell him and lose him it will hurt you more because you made a stronger connection with him. And if your ex tells him chances are he will still be friends with your ex and not even want to talk to you. But if you tell him now he will probably be more forgiving because he is just starting to learn about you plus everybody has a past he will probably be more understanding of that.0