... I hadn't decided whether I was willing to go all the way with her yet, it's hard to judge your feelings and the girl well enough to know this before going out with her, but now I know that I would go all the way with her (if something doesn't crop up of course)
Thing is now she's unsure of whether I even want her at all, so should I explain to her why I said what I said? I hesitate because girls if a guy told you that he'd considered whether he'd marry you and decided he would, before you'd gone out with him you'd run a mile yes?
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If I was her, I would be completely heart broken. I am sensitive and if a boy told me that I would think to myslef "So I'm not attractive" or "I'm not girlfriend material after all." I would suggest telling her why you told her that. If I was her, I would rather hear a explanation than having none at all. Based on the comment you put, I agree with you about the religion reason. I am Christian also and now a days, guys want to "smash and pass" and I HATE that. I do not want to commit adultery and have sex with someone and we end up breaking up. Or getting a divorce. You cannot rush into marriage. You marry someone whom you like. Marriage is a one time thing so choose wisely. :)1