I really don't get why he says its my decision if I wanna still be with him or not. we have been together for almost 2 years. plus I am a junior in high school and and he's a soon to be freshman in college... help me please
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I think he probably feels a bit strange about dating someone still in high school and is being overly cautious about how he treats the relationship. The important thing is to not feel any pressure about whether you want to continue and make a decision in your head. If it's a no, break it off.
If it's a yes there's is two main options I think you should consider.
1 - You should go talk to him and tell him that you're willing to proceed but need to know what you mean to him. Ask him whether he wants to continue with the relationship.
2 - Be more secretive and don't tell him how you feel, but be direct and ask him whether he wants to proceed. Then go ahead and tell him that you do too.
I would suggest probably the first option as I think he is probably stressed and a little uncomfortable, and doesn't want you to feel any pressure, the first option gets everything out in the open and he knows how you feel. This is all depending on his personality, but it's important to make him feel more comfortable, and let him know that you can make decisions on your own, but need to know how he feels.1