Why do gay guys seem to make so much more of an effort with their appearance to make an impression on another gay male than lesbians? It seems like lesbians don't put any effort into their appearance at all. I walk past a gay guy and I think "Wow. Good on him. I'm straight and I find him hot. I bet there's a whole line of fine males waiting for him." And with lesbians, there's just nothing. Hell, if I was a lesbian (and I'm a bit bi myself) I'd go for a straight looking girl cuz she looks beautiful and looks after herself. Is it just that I haven't come across any hot lesbians or they generally don't exist?
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Um I think it's because you have a stereotypical idea of lesbians and gays. When you meet a super snazzy looking guy you assume he's gay, but he may be straight and just likes looking nice. But when you see a very femininely dress girl you probably assume she's straight, but she may be gay. Your going off the assumption that all gay guys dress nice, and that all lesbians are butch. But that's not true. I' wear a dress and heels almost everyday, my girlfriend does too. My gay friend "looks and acts just like a straight guy" but he's super gay. I think everyone just has an idea on how they think each sexuality themselves. Also don't say your bi unless your bi. I'm bi and this causes a lot of hate and stereotype around bi people. It basically gives us a bad name. So just say you bicurious or heteroflexible.2
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