So this girl I have had a thing with the past few months recently texted me with her schedule for the entire month of September. I thought it was a little odd, but then I thought maybe it's her way of saying "I'm not ignoring you". I have asked her to do some stuff lately and she says yes, but then when it comes to doing it she is always doing something else. I started to think she just didn't want to hang out with me, but then she texts me her schedule saying "I promise I'm not making excuses. Next month my life will be back to normal." My original thinking was if she was really into me, she'd make time. But after that text, maybe she is trying to tell me to hang on until her life is less hectic? Anyone have any thoughts? If you knew you were going to be traveling for basically 2-3 months straight, would you avoid starting a relationship until things were back to normal?
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She may be playing hard to get. I've read some articles that advice women to not seem "too available" or males will lose interest. Why I don't personally believe that, other women may not feel the same. If this girl really likes you, she may be trying to "do the right things" so you'll be interested in her. Or she may just have a hectic schedule, it's definitely possible.0