This guy and I have been going out for about a month now. We go on a dates, talk almost everyday, and he just kissed me two weeks ago.
Last night a new guy asked me out on a date. I haven't gave him an answer yet because I'm not sure where me and the other guy stand.
What do I do in this situation? This could be my first boyfriend so that's why I'm asking. Do I ask the other guy or don't tell him and go on the date?
Guys what would you like the girl to do?
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What you should do is ask the first guy if he wants this to be an exclusive relationship or not. Keep everything honest and above board, it will save you pain in the long run.
If he doesn't, then you can do whatever you want with the other guy. He may already kind of think you ARE in an exclusive relationship even though you haven't discussed it, if he isn't very experienced in dating. So that would suck for him if he thought that and then you started dating someone else.
If you like the first guy, then he deserves to be treated with a bit of respect and to have you discuss the state of your relationship BEFORE you start dating someone else. If you don't really care about him, then it doesn't really matter, as you clearly haven't had the 'are we committed' talk and so are basically free to see other guys anyways. But if it were me, I would sure want the option of saying 'yes, let's be committed' if it were a potential issue and if I was into the girl.0