I have been thinking about senior prom since freshmen year. It seemed so far away and strange back then. However it has finally rolled around and, being my last year of high school I feel I should step up to the plate a little more and try and get a date for a couple of the dances this year. I went to one last year with this one girl I thought could be a relationship however it never turned out the way I thought it would. The question now is about who to ask when there is no one I want a serious relationship with. There is this one girl that I like that has the best personality ever but if I decide to date her I might get hated on by my friends. She may be slightly less slim than I am. I mean that in the nicest possible way but the fact is she is a little chubby and I'm fairly skinny. I would like to go out with her but she is a step down from what I can date or what I think I can date. In addition if I decide to date her then what if another girl that is hotter turns out to like me. I would be in a very bad situation if that happened. Help?
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Your out of your own league if you have a legue...
whats wrong with dating someone who doesn't look like you or act like you do?
In most cases thats not where you find love but where you find what you dont like and hate about yourself.
Think deeper than your friends and more into your OWN feelings. Your friends aren't your friends if they talk down on you for liking or dating someone who isn't like you.
Chance your pace if you stay in that mind set you will never advance in life and be a sad aged man.
I learned that when I got to senior year why care what others thinknif its you? Your feelings your mind?
And if a hotter slimmer girl comes by? Are you in it for lust or yor heart? If you go for lust you will never get that one girl back, and if you do thwn you will be stuck in an infinate loop of sorrow, self pity, and dirt.
You will be looked down on and you won't be the 'high and might league' youve set yourself up in.
Be yourself dont label or make yourself seem better than anyone becaus eif you act as if you are you aren't because you arw stunting your growth as a blossoming human.3