I seem to only attract men that want sex! I know there are several things I'm doing wrong but I can't seem to change my behavior. I've only really looked for men on dating sites. I do this because men out in the world won't talk to me. I recently met a (so I thought) nice guy we met somewhere in public, he paid for dinner, opened the car door for me, we had a nice time together then talked twice a day until our next date a week later. I felt comfortable enough to have him pick me up at my house and as soon as I got in the car he told me that if he was going to be drinking he wasn't going to want to drive home, that his plan was to get a hotel room. I thought ok well I guess I can call someone to come get me when I was over the whole thing but he kept getting more and more drinks and before I knew it I could barely walk. We ended up at this hotel that I don't even remember walking to and we had sex. I honestly didn't want to sleep with him that soon and I'm not blaming him for my alcohol consumption I should have stopped much sooner than I did. But it happened and now he's too busy to talk to me. I knew that would happen. I'm kicking myself because I actually liked him and I knew that if I gave it up to quickly I'd never talk to him again.
I keep telling myself if I stop looking the right guy will come around but I'm so afraid that he wont. I don't know what to do. I've spent the last 3 days beating myself up about this and yet I keep doing it over and over.
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guys online are only looking for flings after watching to much p*rn, go to social outings bookstore, church, grocery store etc.1