I'm 19 years old and have never had a boyfriend. I don't know how to talk to guys, and they don't seem to be super interested in me. If they are it's only for one thing, and I don't do that. I'm very shy, which is an obvious problem. I also feel uncomfortable going out to clubs/bars/ect...
How do I meet a guy?
And if I do how do I start talking to him?
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I'd say first think about your own hobbies or any particular clubs, associations, anything that you're a part of or that pique your interest. The great thing is that meeting guys isn't solely restricted to clubs/bars/etc, so you can totally find guys that you can more easily relate to. Sometimes all it takes is a simple "hello" and things get rolling.
Talking about their interests usually is something people love to do, so it's a great way to start a conversation. Another popular thing is to pick out something in the area that you can comment on, then use that as the icebreaker.
Shyness can be tough to overcome, but it's certainly not a game killer. With the right attitude and a tiny bit of confidence, you'd be surprised!0