Whenever we get in an argument he will throw in how I'm cheating on him or something on the matter. He's like this when he's sober. When he's not, he knows I'm not cheating on him and he tells me it's not my fault for these accusations, his mom is cheating on his dad and that is why he has been so persistent about it. But I've only been with my boyfriend, we've been dating for 3 years already, you'd think he would trust me since I've never cheated or lied... How can I try and help him?
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You need to explain that you aren't his mom, and that you've done nothing to make him think you're cheating. He needs to not keep accusing you of this awful stuff because it hurts your feelings and you also feel like its hurting yalls relationship.
The thing about pointless paranoia of something happening like that is that it becomes a self fulling prophesy. Like, if he keeps accusing you of leaving him for another dude... eventually you might get sick of that and actually leave him. So he needs to straighten up.0