Imy girlfriend basically caught me cheating but honestly I love but shit happens i need her back somebody help me
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I always wonder why do people cheat? Men, women, why? It's horrible. It's one of the worst pains imaginable. Especially if you love the person. I'd probably forgive a cheater, but only once, if you were really sorry and I really loved you.
But catching you in the act? Sorry, I try to avoid violence, I'm psycho though. I'll probably chop your dick off, or just walk away and never talk to you again, not sure which one. I cannot imagine walking in on my SO cheating. That's one of my worst fears in relationships.
I'd say leave her for now. If you say "shit happens", you don't sound too ashamed or sorry for your mistake. If a jug of milk falls you can say "shit happens". If you forgot to pick up the dry cleaning you can say "shit happens". If accidentally fell off your bike you can say "shit happens". When you cheat on someone, an appropriate response is definitely not "shit happens".
Hopefully you do realize cheating is serious and damaging to a person. It's extremely painful to find out your SO was unfaithful. Give her space but realize if she doesn't take you back, she is being completely reasonable.0