I dated the BEST guy. He ended up dumping me and I was really sad. I've dated other guys sine then, but the package just never seems complete. Not that I'm comparing all these guys, but I was really happy with this one guy and I want that kind of happiness back. Is it bad that I don't want to settle for less? I mean, this guy was well rounded, smart, kind, good looking, he understood my moods and personality... So far I can find guys that are smart, but don't get me, guys that are smart, but aren't well rounded. I definitely want to date a smart guy so I've kept that up, but I can't find anything that completes the package so to speak. At least nothing like this other guy.
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It isn't bad that you want the same level of intimacy, but you may need to keep looking for a long time or sacrifice your standards in some other ares, such as appearance or wealth. For example you might find a guy that you connect with, but may not be as attractive as your ex was. If that happens you either need to be accept that, or be alright with staying single, while you keep looking. There is no telling how long it might take to find a person that is everything you want.0
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