Hi ladies, (and boys)
I'm a well dressed guy that have a kinda nice body and an "average" face (i'd say 7/10 for the face).
Usually, women think i'm well dressed, have a nice body and nice hair. I smell good and act with confidence (I am VERY confident).
I am NOT cocky, just confident!
I do hit on gorgeous women from time to time. I am NOT a player, but I got told one day that hitting on women or even talking to random guys builds up your confidence. It really helped me troughout the years to do so...
Thing is, I just talk to random strangers and never plan to hit on a women to then have a date with her. I recently started my career, bought a house, a car and etc so the only thing that's missing in my life is... A WOMEN!
So, let's say I spot a gorgeous women that looks kind and nice, and let's say i'm in a hurry and can't talk much to her, what if I approach her and just tell her: "hey, how are you doing? What's your name? I'm jean-michel. It might seem a little bit weird but I was looking at you from there and I find you very attractive. Would you be willing to go get a coffee with me someday?"
Would you give that guy your number? I mean, he might want you for sex, or really just be attracted to you and might want to know you better...
What would you think? I asked for a coffee, NOT a beer. A coffee for me means "knowing you better".
I know many guys that don't stand up and hit on gorgeous women like I do, and they look much better than me, but less confident. I don't give a shit about rejection, that's the thing...
Anyways, tell me what you think!!
- I would TOTALLY NOT give him my number.Vote A
- I would TOTALLY give him my number.Vote B
Most Helpful Girl
Since this guy/you said coffee instead of beer I would definitely agree. Plus the setting of a café is much more appealing than a bar setting.
You also said that this person/you says get "coffee someday" instead of saying "do you want to do something tonight". I can't really explain it, but to me, that's a whole lot better.1
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