I'm 23 and I'm still awkward around guys I like and I only had one bf when i was 16-18 and I have been single for about 6 years. Every time I like a guy I ruin it with my awkwardness. I'm too awkward to make eye contact and too awkward to even say hi. I feel like I push men away. Will a guy every go for an awkward girl?
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Yes a guy will go for a girl like you. I know you can not help not replying or talking to guys but it does come across as cold and unfriendly. I am not trying to criticise you because I can totally understand you because I am shy to when it comes to girls sometimes, just letting you know how it comes across, so I know what you are going through. The advantage you have is that society accepts a shy girl when it comes to dating more than it accepts a shy guy. So if a guy talks to you try to just say hi to him even if you come across as shy it is still better than saying nothing. Most guys will understand if you come across as shy, you would be surprised how understanding guys are when girls are shy. If it helps many guys like to pretend they are the masters at talking to women and making the first move, the actually truth is us guys generally are more shy than we let on to you girls. So he will understand.0