so i've secretly stalked my bfs chat rooms and i found out he was talking to this girl, deleted former chats with her and im not aure if they actually had something, but over previous text they were really really flirty. i feel very very bad for actually hacking his chats and we had a big argument. now we talked it out and he said he blocked her but i feel like my trust got hurt big time from knowing a) he texts with this girl he's been flirty with b4 us and b) he's been deleting messages and i mean why would you delete chats that are alright?
i dont know how to feel to be honest. i feel bad for looking through ans try to be so nice to him and all but at the same time I feel sad cause he hides stuff and lies.
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I delete messages when im done talking to a person. Done talking- meaning I dont care about that person anymore and I wouldn't want to message that person anymore. If he was flirting with that girl BEFORE you were dating, then you shouldn't be worried about anything. He is loyal that he blocked her and doesn't talk to her anymore. He probably deleted the messages because he is like me and he moved on, or he doesn't want you freaking out or getting jealous over something that is in the past, like you are doing right now.0
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