I am really shy and honestly very insecure and self conscious for a lot of reasons, mainly the fact that I am 21 now and still never had a kiss or date. I find it hard to look girls in the eye or even talk to them because I am afraid of them not liking me. How do I fake confidence and appear that I don't have low self esteem? I just feel ugly a lot or just too weird to be likable. Other than that I would say I am a normal guy in terms of what I do with my life. Does anybody else have this problem?
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I always feel the same way. The solution? Focus on yourself. Don't like the way your body looks? Work to change it. Have huge confidence issues? Work on a hobby to get your mind off it and when you feel like it's time to bounce back then go buy a whole new wardrobe to feel better. I think shyness is cute and if I had a insecure boyfriend then I would love to tell him how much I love all the things he says are flaws and point out all the things that make him attractive. Hell I would say it everyday. Your not ugly. Trust me. If I were you I would start off seeing a girl as a friend so then your comfortable with her and over time you will develop feelings and bam! First kiss, first love, first girlfriend.0