I hung out with this guy living closer to my house twice. We made out but nothing more happened and I really liked him. Last night I got a little drunk at a friends house and texted him and asked to hang out.
This is the convo:
Me:I'm in Norwood but I'll drive to Philly if you want to meet
Him:Listen I'm no good for you
Me:What Can I call you
Him:No look I'm into feet! It gets weird
Me:What Can we talk
Him:I only wanted to get between your arches
Me:Can I at least see you tonight
Me:I'm driving over now
Him:I have a foot fetish! And you didn't fulfill my needs so its not gonna work
Me: Lol what
Me:Can we meet tonight
Me:Ok How about if I fulfill your needs
Me:Can we talk
Me:Whats going on. Why don't you answer when I call.
Me:Austin I'm serious. What's going on
Him:For real you are creeping me out. Leave me alone
Me:Really? I am the one whose creeping out?
Me: But I still wanna know wth is going on
Me:Can you talk
So meanwhile I called him like 11 times and he never answered. Also on my way home I stopped at his house and knocked on the door a bunch of times but nobody was home.
This morning I apologized for my drunken behavior and ask him to give me chance to talk. Of course, he hasn't replied. The sad thing I really like this guy and now I'm so unhappy.
Anyway I need to know what's happening so I was gonna go knock on his door tomorrow (he's off work) and demand to talk. I'm sick of game players specially when we are both in our 20s.
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I don't think you screwed up here. The guys seems fishy though, why is he nervous about seeing you suddenly? If I was alone or with friends and I got your text late at night I would def want to meet you. He tried scaring you off, quite childishly I might say... for no reason he would explain, and then just disappears?
Maybe you need to keep away of him for some time. Give both of you some space and see what happens.2