What is the most easiest and most tactful way to find out whether a guy is looking for a girlfriend or future wife? I hesitate to ask outright too soon for fear of scaring a guy off, but don't want to invest too much if our goals for the future do not match. If your response is to ask outright, when is the right time to ask, and how should I word it? Thanks.
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Is there a possibility of accepting the answer, "You never really KNOW until it either actually happens, or actually never happens"?
Is there some likelihood of accepting that even he doesn't even know until it actually happens, or doesn't actually happen?
Or, do you prefer the notion that things in life are always within your control to some degree, and are predictable with just enough certainty to pacify your anxiety?0
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