I met this guy on a dating site, and we've been dating for over 3 months exclusively. We had the exclusive talk, and said we were not seeing anyone else. I stopped going on the dating site because I like him a lot and want to see where things go, but my friend told me that she saw him 'online' on her feed yesterday... I know we haven't had the 'official' talk, but it still stings that he was on it. I don't know what he's doing on there, could just be friendly chatting, but he could be still searching... and that makes me feel uneasy. He had even suggested an event to go to together a month from now, so we do make a lot of future plans... but now this is making me feel uncertain.
What should I do? :( Should I ask him where he thinks we stand, or disregard it?
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i see your point, you must be thinking why the player always found a way to get to me, and i thought you may experienced this before , otherwise would not be kind of sensitive
as your can see , dating sites did have the magic power to comfort a lonely single man by creating a miniaturized social mechanism , with a quantity of delusion of UI design, the poor man genuinely thought he was connecting to the other one, even he was a ghost (just like me, by the way at the mean time i'm typing these words, i'm oning 5 dating sites and no one ever say hi to me and possibly something to do with my look aha ha ha )
that will come to this , your guy haven't get enough positive charging from your over 3 moths exclusively date to fight off his long sneaky aloneness.
who didn't have doubt? whether it came from past or present, but the most explicitliest we can't let this uncertain thoughts to seek the other one, infect them and breed in , that would only cause loop
i know i know, we guys dying to try propagate as further as possible through different females, just like we got nothing better to do naturally, and i think you should confirm this issue on your own
So despite of you're in a relationship , girls@guys is sort of dating site, right?0