just curious if this is a deal breaker to you.
it is for me. it shows me he has is bigoted and will not understand or be cable of respect.
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That is not enough to determine whether or not the guy is bigoted. If he considers women inferior, then sure, that is a good indicator that there will be some respect issues. But if he interprets a man calling him a woman to be an insulting gesture, it doesn't necessarily mean that. Because chances are the man that calls him a woman does in fact mean it as an insult. The man doing the insulting is the bigoted one here, him interpreting it as an insult is just an awareness that it was intended as such.
So really, if they guy in question uses the term 'woman' as a derogatory term to insult other guys, then yeah, it should be a dealbreaker. If he is called a woman by another guy and takes offence, then I don't think that should be. It is a difference in intent vs awareness.0