I have been asking this question and never got an answer that I just took, I hear a lot of stuff going around, like its not an every day thing that you see a black woman and a white man together, which yes, that is true you don't but I think that's a reason, and I basically think its when slavery well not really slavery but that point of time were blacks and whites were divided in 1619, blacks and whites were seperated and the white people just never really dated outside their race because in that time, you weren't allowed, (and it became sort of a thing for white men not to date outside their race) and I know people might have a different opinion but I feel if we didn't have slavery in that point of time, then I think black women and white men would've dated each other and black men and white women would've dated each other and all human kind will date each other that's my opinion... and basically we as black women are kinda scared at what the white mens family will think of us, would they be against or what? We tend to worry about it a lot... because some families have that rule were the son is allowed to date white women only, which I think is stupid, We have been called negros, stupid and blah blah blah, and I think no man unless thus is their generations wants a women who has ancestors who have been called that, which I have heard a lot of people say through grape vine, but I mean why judge off color, and generation when you could be losing out on something good, but that's others people reasonable wanting and stuff. But tell me your opinion down below, and was my reason smart? or stupid?
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I'm a white guy and I've dated a black woman who is also 9 years older than me for 3 years now. In all honesty, I see more racism from the blacks about it than I do whites. My family loves her. Her family (aside from her children from a past marriage, also white guy) wants nothing to do with her, partly because she dates outside her race.
When we go out, many times black people look at us with disgusted looks because here's a "nerdy white boy" dating an extremely attractive black girl. Sometimes they even holler things at us. She gets made fun of constantly by many blacks because she went to school to became a medical assistant, and before that ran her own business for 7 years. She's very well spoken. She gets told she's "acting White" for doing that.
So even though I have friends of all ages and colors, and I appreciate women of all ages and colors, dating this black girl has made me see how much racism blacks really have against themselves and others, even though they try to play the innocent victim in it all.0