When it comes to dating why do people think you're obligated to give chances?
One guy asked me out. I had hung out with him once. Yeah he was nice but he had bad friends, smoked pot, and was very immature. He asked me out several times and I turned him down each time. He told me that I should "give him a chance."I kept saying I'm just not interested.
2 of my friends said the same thing. "Aww he's cute give him a chance." And "he's very nice, don't be a bitch and give him a chance."
A chance at what? Giving a chance to someone you're uninterested in is unfair to you and them. I already know I am not interested.
So the next time a guy I wasn't interested in asked me out I gave him a chance and it was awful. Never felt anything new.
So really I don't get it- why go out with someone you don't like?
by the way this isn't a question about which gender does this worse lol so don't start
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Don't don't. Don't let people guilt you into it. Someone else's sob story isn't your problem! It's sweet he or whoever else likes you, but you owe them nothing for that.2