So new supervisor from another department start working with me on a project. She gave all the signals like punching, asking help for seriously silly questions, stare to the point that I feel it sometimes awkward while talking, notices my smallest moves, will come talk to me from other part of the work place. She yells silly stuff from distance and if I say sorry she will come to my station and tells it again, she never talk about her past or other guy, she winked sometimes and what not.
I ask her out to have a drinks as a friendly meeting. She didn't bother to reply. Next time I see her, the very first thing she says" I got the message and think its sounds great but I have to work on Sunday. ( which is highly not possible).
Everything is the same but the only difference I noticed that she doesn't stand very close to me anymore on a break. However she always stand in a way so I can see her.
She is friendly with everyone but she never touches someone's arm or touch someone in a very casual manner.
I don't know what the hell is on her mind? You know I think she ignored to text back so that's what my answer.
Why is she touching, winking again? I don't want to ask her again as she didn't suggested any other time but it may be because there were people at that time in the room. What does she want me to do? Why so much confusion?
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Because she realized how obvious she was being about her crush on someone is superior to (in the workplace) and doesn't want to risk her job. It was inappropriate and her emotions allowed her to think it was ok... until u asked her out. Then her brain kicked in. Jobs are hard to come by now and days.0