I don't want to end up dating somebody for them to ditch me when I get to 28 (about when I want to start a family) for a younger, more fertile woman in her early twenties. This is really important for me as I only graduate from university when I am 24, will have a proper career when I am 26, leaving me little time to pop two or three children out while keeping my career on track at the same time.
How can I make sure that he's absolutely committed to the relationship and wants to start a family with me one day - and won't ditch me because of my declining fertility?
Thank you! :)
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I cannot answer your first question, other than telling you to learn to kick your heart to the curb and listen to your gut, instead, when looking at a guy.
Speaking from a guy who was very loose sexually, I can tell you the kind of guy who will NOT want to marry you. (Even if he shows you to his parents, who might have seen twenty other girls just like you in the past)
He will insinuate, talk about sex, get frisky, want to "touch" you, want to get close (no matter how nervous you are, he will override that) and eventually try and get sex from you.
That kind of guy, even if he says in his heart, "I will eventually marry her." will not. Search this website for the girls who gave a guy sex before marriage, and how the guy (Sadly sometimes even fathering a kid with them) is straying and the relationship is dying.
In my opinion, sex before marriage destroys everything. So don't. If he refuses to respect your boundaries, he's not marriage material, nor would he want to marry you.
Always trust your gut.0