So I met this girl on OKCupid back on July 1st. We've went out on our first date and then since then we've just hung out and done things. We go bike riding occasionally and out for drinks with each other a few times.
Just last week she asked me out to dinner so we went and had a great time. Afterwards I asked her if she wanted to go see the dueling pianos and she suggested we go to somewhere more "chill" so we ended up at the hookah lounge. The whole time all I could think about was "I should kiss her." But she seems kind of shy and never gave any big signs that she wanted me to.
We're getting together again this Thursday for a bike ride and this Saturday for a football game so I want to just let her know where I stand. I'm not confessing my love or infatuation for her or anything.
I've read sometimes telling a girl how you feel can hurt or help the situation but at this point I don't care I just want her to know and I want to know where she stands too so I can either move on or take it to the next level.
Girls. Should I tell her this in person? Not gonna text it.
" I'm just going to be honest and cut straight to the point. I enjoy spending time with you and I'm always looking forward to the next time I'll get to see you. And each time I do I think to myself "This is the day I'm going to show her that I like her more than a friend". But I kind of find it hard to read you so I don't do it at the risk of making you uncomfortable. I'm a confident person but I'm different from other guys that will just grab a girls hand or kiss her without getting obvious signals that it's what she wants me to do. I just wanted to put that out here so you know where I stand. "
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Dude she's probably waiting for you to make a move and thinks you're uninterested. Definitely go for it asap.1