What should I do? I mean like, at first I liked my crush now my friend likes him what should I do it's like really confusing and the problem is that theyre in the same school and I'm in a different school :((
I think my friend I and I like the same guy?
What Guys Said 3
Well, it's kind of up to him. People are not possessions, you can't "claim" them, you don't get discovery rights. You can't just go up and lick him and say he is yours. Well, you can, but it won't make a difference.
Both of you should tell him you like him. If he likes one, then that's that. If he likes both, then the three of you should hang out together until you start seeing who is more compatible. If he likes none, then that's that too.
This can't be, and shouldn't be, about a competition between you and your friend. This is an interpersonal relationship, this is about mutual feelings of interest and a desire to spend time together. If you don't let it degenerate into a competition, and you keep things above board and in the open, you should be able to maintain friendship with your friend and still both let the guy know you are interested.0
This happened to me and my mate once. We knew we would fight if we continued to pursue our love for he girl. So we decided that we would both try as hard as we can to drop our feelings and continue our strong friendship. We pulled it off, as hard as it was and stayed best friends because we both agreed that friendship was better than fighting over a girl.0
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