I start dating when I was 12 my first date was a hell, I don't know when I'm wrong because I care to much and I love to make the other part so happy I feel like a hell everything doesn't work all my dates was for hookup no one was serious after I start dating online I did think after 2 hell dates in real life the online will be better but the same story repeated again is there is any wrong with me or I'm just attracting pervert guys? why me I can't understand I need help I want real healthy serious relationship because after all does hell dates I start having cold emotions.
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Well you started dating when you were 12. There's your first problem.
You are not capable of having a healthy relationship when you're 12. Maturity is needed for a healthy relationship and I don't care how much you disagree, no 12 year old is able to be mature enough to handle it.
We base all our dating expectations on previous dates. When you're all bright eyed and bushy tailed and never have dated before, you want your Disney princess boyfriend and then your first guy is not him. So you make a judgement and go to change some things for your next one. Ergo, if your first boyfriend was bad (they all are at 12) you can hardly really formulate standards for a successful relationship in the future.
So take some time, start completely from scratch, and you'll find a guy. Wipe clear your memories of past failed relationships because you're basing what you're looking for on how some 12 year old boy acted all those years ago. You are, even if you think you're not.
Take some time and start fresh. Go into it with no expectations. You need a complete do over.1