I mean come on! Why am I called insecure when he/bf is lying about his whereabouts - why is the responsibility switched onto me, as if i'm the one who's at fault, when he is lying?
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You are at fault. You know he is lying about his whereabouts but you remain his girlfriend. I fault for that. As for him lying, he switches onto you because you let him. There isn't a consequence that will make him rethink his lying and because of that he will continue to. He will not change his behavior as long as you remain the person he can continue lying to. No matter how many times you forgive him, if his actions are the same as before (lying) then he will continue calling YOU insecure. Respect yourself and dont be in a unhealthy relationship.0