i'm talking about Self harm scars, would it turn you off or would you be okay with it as long as she isn't still harming herself?
What are your personal thoughts on people who self harm?
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no, they dont turn me off... they are just there... plus it really only matters if you are ok with yourself. that may sound a bit strange but your body is for you. whether it be a turn off or not, you must be comfortable and confident with who you are. i always hear everyone say in movies and shit, "you complete me". no one person should complete you. you should need no validation from anyone else. be the person you want to be and say essentially fuck you to those that think you are less. so in my opinion you should treat your scars like trophies saying that you got through a difficult time. my ex cut and did other things and i was proud of her that she stopped. it doesn't mean that you are weak or a stupid young girl but a strong woman that got through a tough time in her life. :) you gotta be you honey lol1