i was talking to a guy a couple months ago, we hang out, eat dinner together, everything was going perfectly. but all of the sudden he stopped calling me and texting me and wouldn't return my phone calls and text messages. so one day i decide to show myself to his house and asked him what was going on between us. he reply saying that he was going through some drama at work and had "personal" problems and that he couldn't get into a relationship right now. he wanted to be friends and maybe later be more than that. we still talk and text each other but he is totally differen towards me but don't know why?
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try doing the same thing he is. just stop calling and texting him. if he calls you keep the conversation brief and make sure you are the one to end the call. make up and excuse. if he texts you, don't bother responding for a few hours. and again, keep it short and simple. don't show up at his house or anything. just don't make an effort any more. he won't like the lack of attention. he'll be wondering what's on your mind. eventually curiousity will get the better of him, and he'll come to you prepared to make an effort. just leave that area of uncertainty for him to dwell on. you've been calling and texting him, initiating all of this effort. so he knows you are interested and because of that, the ball is in his court. he may change hisattitude if he thinks you're loosing interest. people want what they can't have, and nobody appreciates anything until its gone. that's just human nature, so use that to your advantage. I suck at relationships, but I've learned a lot from my mistakes.so I hope I was able to help, or at least give you a little perspective. best of luck : )1