Ok so I've been dating an amazing lady, it's going really well. I couldn't be more in to her. I've not dated anyone with kids before and I don't have kids either so I'm pretty nervous about meeting her. Despite that I am excited too, we talk about her all the time and I can't help but ask about her. So I could do with some help... What are the rules here... Do's and don'ts etc
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respect her boundaries, ask about her interests, engage in her interests, try to find some common ground between you two because thatll help bring you two closer. but dont be too pushy. maybe ask a few questions, if you get the vibe that she doesn't want to talk so much (whether its her personality or just because your her moms new man or something) respect that and back off a bit. Let her come to you.
I've experienced this many times, including when i met my step dad for the first time and all of his kids and family. plus new editions to other family members from marriage. it may take time but thats okay1
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