okk so my parents know that I have a boyfriend.we have been together for quite some time now. we love each other a lot words really can't explain it, but the thing is I'm 18 and I think I should be able to hang out with my boyfriend whenever I want to but my parents doesn't let me go anywhere with him. I have been seeing him once a week for as long as we've been together and my mom had met him and everything but she still doesn't want me to go anywhere with him, it's like she doesn't want me to have a boyfriend and she wants me to stop seeing him.so I'm thinking to just go see my boyfriend whenever we have time, because he mostly works weekdays and he takes time off to spend time with me..so basically I just want to walk out and go spend time with him but I will come back home the usualy time my mom would want me to.
i hope you guys understand my situation..
what would you do if you was in my situation?
would you just leave and go hang out with your boyfriend/girlfriend and then come back home at the usual time?
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You are in a slave and owner situation. As long as you are willing to let them, they own you. They make the rules, you follow them. The thing is that is now illegal. You are 18, a legal adult. You do not have to pay the slightest attention to their rules. You are free to do as you like. The thing is, so are they. If you are too lazy to get a job and support yourself, you have to find a guy willing to support you or you have to let the parents support you and be subject too what ever abuse they choose to dish out when you ignore their rules.
You must simply assert your rights. Tell your parents, instead of asking when you are wanting something to be different. If they are unwilling to accommodate your wishes, you will just have to be a big girl and get out of that house.
They have a valid point. If you can't even stand up too your parents it is good evidence that you are not emotionally prepared to stand up to adult decisions. So make up your mind when you done being a little girl and start behaving like an adult woman.1
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