Background: I have met this guy about two months ago, we have met each other when we are with friends and he has flirted with me quite a bit in 'real life' and also through text. When we meet when we are with friends he looks at me and I can see he says things about me to his friends, but I think he doesn't have the guts to really start conversations with me (he only asks lame questions that don't lead to any conversations).. Problem is, out of the 5 longer texting conversations we have had over these two months, I started 4 (he did ask for my number though, and texts me back immediately all the time). I would like to get to know him better, but I am getting put off by the fact that he doesn't text me first.. I do know he is extremely busy, and working about 60 hours a week. Should I ask him out or just wait until he initiates something?
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You can start a conversation and let him know that you like listening to what he has to say. It should motivate him into conversing with you. Also, if you can get him to tell you some story.. like whatever was the craziest thing he's done in life or something silly.. you can react to his story to swap the roles and tell him afterwards you enjoyed it. Even if it's a boring story, try to be positive if you like the guy. It's not easy to open up personalities.
It's not much but it's a start :)0
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