Here's a scenario, I want to know what your thoughts is on such a relationship.
This person C loves you. C understands you, and both of you feel very comfortable talking about your feelings, your history, your aspirations and even personal flaws and embarrassments with each other. There is literally nothing you wouldn't share with this person.
But both of you aren't compatible. In a way that, while C trusts and admires you, you don't think C is a dependable person. C has a different idea on how they want to live their life. One of you wants to aim high, the other is satisfied with simple things. You would love to be laidback in life but you don't think it's the right think to do. So you try hard to meet expectations. But C is satisfied with the minimal to get by and chill.
Do you think such a relationship is workable?
Most Helpful Girl
Nope. I need someone who is on the same page as me and has ambition to achieve more. That to me is a deal breaker. I grew up below middle class with a father who just wanted to make ends meet... honestly I'd never put anyone and not my future kids through that crap. It was awful. Security to me is essential and I want a partner who feels the same.1