so im 14 and he's 17. im already insicure about myself after been raped and now i have twims which i love however my boyfriend cheated on me told me he wouldn't do it again and i found out he did. i dont know what to do? he's everything to me and my twins... what do i do?
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I'm so sorry you were raped but you sound like you love being a mom, even at your young age. I don't know what the cultural context is for your question. In the US, I'd suggest you have your dad talk to him. I take it he's not the twins biological father? I would be reluctant to let him adopt when he can legally unless you can get him to keep it in his pants. I think it's important to keep in mind that like you, he is very, very young to be in this situation and he may well feel a bit trapped. You may feel the same way. It will take maturity well beyond your years on both your parts to make this work.0
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