so my boyfriend is in jail for 6 months, i visit him every or every other Saturday and write him letters, he said some of the guys says stuff like "if your girlfriend really loved you shed put money on your books and on her phone so you can call. my friend who also has a boyfriend in jail is spending like 800 dollars a month on him , she puts 120 on her phone every week, and 200 dollars on his books everyweek. She said people tell him he has a good girlfriend.. my boyfriend doesn't ask for me to do that he just wants me to put 25 dollars on my phone so we can talk but right now i am so financially held up i can not do that. i dont have the funds to do this and if i did i wouldn't because it just doesn't seem like a good idea to do. they are fed every day 3 times a day and they get showers clothes , etc, what would a inmate need with 800 dollars a month. Am i right or wrong? should i feel bad?
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I wouldn't feel bad at all. First off who really gives a damn what the "other guys in there have to say" their convicts which is the lowest form of society you can be. Jail is jail for a reason. He isn't suppose to live like a king in there. He should be learning why he is in their and working to better himself so he isn't in a situation to be in there in the first place. Unless he did some vigilante justice he should do his time and be grateful for whatever you give, be it money on his books, or the phone or just sending letters.1