Apparently the first time I put this up it didn't go through so let's try this again. I don't consider myself to be ugly, I have a good stable job as a teacher and am completely independent yet I feel like a pariah when people ask me if I'm married/ in a relationship and I say no. I noticed the other day that my bible study group consists entirely of couples with kids. I'm the only single person in the group. Is it weird to be single at my age?
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I am 35 and single.
If it were for my emotions and desires I would be looking hard... But I know that God is still re making me into His image. I am maturing, and growing. The biggest mistake I could have made ten, five, or even two years ago would have been trying to find a mate.
I don't know when I will be ready. Only God knows. So I wait and trust His judgment in my life. I also trust God to bring me someone He has ordained for me, hoping that I have not been ignoring His Voice! (Which has happened in times past)
It's complicated, and painful, watching couples hold hands and smile. While I choke down my love and emotions, knowing that God is working in me, not knowing when, or if I will be ready. (And waiting on His timing)0