So I met this girl about 2 months ago and we clicked almost instantly. We would talk all the time via texts, phone calls, Skype etc. I've only met her twice. Our first meeting was just a date. We kissed, held hands, hugged etc. On our second meeting she invited me over to her house. And we ended up having sex (it wasn't intentional but it just happened). It was my first time. Before that she used to tell me she wanted to take everything slow because every guy she dated before just used her for sex. She told me I was the only one who wasn't after sex and wanted something more and that I made her realise she needs to dress better (cover legs, arms etc), appreciate small things more and not to get too caught up in negativity. But one night we were having a Skype call and we got into this convo about the guys she'd slept with in the past. She told me she's still friends with a few of them. That really upset me. We had a big argument about it. I asked her if she still wanted to see him again. We were gonna meet after a couple of days. She said she's not sure. After that I became all emotional and clingy because she stopped talking to me and I missed her. I started telling her how I miss talking to her. And told her I have strong feelings for me and I thought she liked me quite a lot too. She ignored me for 2 weeks. I know she does care about me but still kept ignoring me. I text saying I'll move one and she said "I'm sorry I've been mean to you and pushed you away. I just got scared. Can we talk again tomorrow?"
Yesterday we had a phone call. She said I deserve much better than her and she told me she doesn't like me anymore (She does). But eventually she ended up breaking my heart. I asked her to block me everywhere so I can't contact her again. First she said she can't do that but she just deleted me from fb, didn't block me.
Does she need some space? What should I do? Leave her alone and see if she comes back? Please dont say something like 'move on' and stuff.
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It doesn't really sound like she knows what she wants to be honest. She may still like the life of talking to the boys that supposedly only like her for sex, because she likes the way they make her feel in the way of attention and that. The chances are she really does like you, and the reason she's blown you off for now is because she knows you'll still be there if or when she changes her mind about talking with other boys. If she's interested she'll come back to you, don't text or ring her a lot... but there's nothing wrong with trying to get in contact in a few week if she hasn't.0
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