Asked the girl I've been seeing where our relationship is heading and she took it as I was asking for commitment. She said she doesn't know what she wanted, but liked me. It wasn't even what I was asking, but after receiving that answer from her it really shed some light on the time we've been spending together.
After hearing that I wanted to just back off a bit and see if she would reach out to me. I've taken longer to respond to her texts and have ignored her once and then she sent me another text a day later. I kept the responses real short and will not continue conversation.
Now I do really like this girl, but I don't know if this is a smart move on my part.
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What are you doing? Why do people play games? She gave you the standard 'go to' answer, because she is afraid of scarring you off, and now you are giving her very clear signals that you are not interested. She is hardly going to tell you how she is feeling (e. g if she loves you ) now is she!. If you feel especially close to this girl, don't play games, be honest on how you feel, as this will open the floor for discussion.0