I'm terrible with girls. I'm bad at talking to them, flirting with them, trying to date them. I'm a goof. I get like nervous and my hands get clammy and I try to talk during awkward silences and just make myself seem weird. I tend to be too nice and it's just part of who I am, but I think that comes off wrong. Talking to a random girl or approaching someone is crazy. I'd rather go to boot camp for another 14 weeks then go up to a girl and try and get a date. Call me crazy, but girls man, girls... So yeah any advice would be much appreciated and I won't even go anonymous for this post haha what should I be embarrassed about?
What can I do to be better with girls?
What Girls Said 2
If it helps just know that you're not the only one who gets nervous. From the girls perspective some of us get terribly nervous too. Especially the first few words but after that you never know what could happen. You just gotta remember that you may be nervous but you're not alone (:2
Practice makes perfect lol. Like keep talking to girls and keeping up a convo with us. Get used to it and like stuff. I get the same way when I talk to guys I like in real life. I usually say I gotta go.. so awkward lol0
What Guys Said 2
For you? Start out small.
Watch the right movies and play the right games, for starters. Stupid movies like Hugh Grant flicks? Avoid. Daniel Craig's James Bond, Justified, like that? Watch.
Second, start out just making short conversation. Go somewhere, strike up a brief conversation with a girl. Make a joke, a comment about the surroundings, just get used to talking to girls.
And relax. Most girls are nervous. If you act sure and confident--even faking it--they will be more into you.0
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