He's in his mid-30s, almost way too good looking (it hurts to make eye contact), very intelligent and somewhat shy. We talk every single day, from morning to night. Only recently has it turned into something sexual (texts, Snapchat) and we just had our first kiss last week and a second one tonight. Well, more like makeout sessions outside of my car before I drive back home. Anyway, he won't invite me to his house and seems to avoid any situation where we'd be alone. Why would he do this? Should I be happy that he's holding out for as long as he has been? I really like him a lot and so far, it has been worth the wait.
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The not inviting you back to his house, sounds odd to me. He could possibly have a girlfriend or wife, and doesn;t want to get caught. The 4 month waiting period, means nothing to me, he could just be doing that to make you think he likes you.
What will say is this, don't get to happy just yet. Hold out for a bit longer and see what happens. The ultimate goal for you is, when will he invite to his house. Keep playing things by ear, see what happens, but i suspect your his bit on the side.
If I was dating you, I would of brought you back to my place by now, and that doesn;t mean for sex. maybe watch a movie, play games.
Be careful, you might end up getting hurt. I could be wrong, wait and see what other answers you get.0