So a I've known this girl since my freshman year of high school.. we are both 22 now. I used to have a crush on her back in hugh school but nothing happened. We stayed close through the years. At the end of last year and the begging of this year we got even closer and one day she told me that she liked the idea of there being an US. So we talked about it and decided to see if we could make it work. After a month she told me she didn't want to ruin what we had and didn't want to risk it. So we stopped talking but through mutual friends we would see each other and talked again as close friends. While we were normal like before, I met this girl that completely made me fall for her. And while I was in the posses of talking to the new girl, she comes to my house to talk to me face to face and tells me she has a commitment problem and wanted to fix that and wanted a second chance! I felt so bad and I told her I was already talking to someone else. She almost cried. I remember hugging her because I felt bad doing that to her but it would of been worse if I would of said yes while wanting to be with the other girl. With the new girl I was just used. Not going to lie I did like her a lot! It has been my biggest heart break! But it made me realize that what I really want from a girl/relationship. The new girl was everything I wanted but not what I needed. Now this past Saturday I went out to my friends birthday party and she was there. When I got there I have her a strong long hug and I asked her how she had been since I hadn't seen her since the day she was at my house. We talked for a bit and she even bought me a drink. Later we danced together and for a moment I rapped my hands around her. I talked to our mutual friendso which are her best friends and they both told me to go and try it again BUT to be careful because she has a bf. No one knows who he is only that they work together. The moment I saw her again I knew I made the wrong choice.
How do I tell her to give us another go?
I really would love to try things with her the right way this time. But I feel bad coming back and telling her to give us another chance to try it again when she has a bf but I guess sometimes you just have to fight for what you want
I will see her on Friday at a friends birthday party and I want to ask her then because we are going in the same car.. any advice? Tips?
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