I met a guy about three weeks ago and he asked for my number after that he couldnt stop texting me, we met up but things escalated to quickly and we almost had ‘’the act’’ twice, i felt disgusted with myself after that and very ashamed because im not that kind of girl. I was in shock and never wanted to see him again and i texted him that. He got mad and said that it is because ‘’he didn't pleased me enough’’’and that i wasn't worth the trouble. It really hurt me to hear him say that because i really liked him and I've never been intimate with a guy so with all those feelings , i was so angry and we had a text fight back and forth, he called me stupid, bitch, if you wanted me to leave you alone i would have done it, worthless. After that i called him disrespectful, jackass, and told him to drop dead, so did he and i never responded to the text, its been about a week and a half now. I feel really sad and hurt because i really liked him and i thought he liked me too. He said i was borderline and didn't know what i wanted.
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Along with 'the act,' I feel the actions after the fact got way out of hand, and with you both engaged in the heat of the nite-----He ended up in hot water, it seems. In other words, he took the fall but as the old saying goes: It takes to tango.
You're angry and upset, for being you are this Nice girl next door, that He was the One who 'Made me do it,' and I think you're fretting because although you never have done anything like this before, he was the One you ended up blaming in the end. And maybe you are feeling he took terrible advantage of you.
You probably should have left it that if he got in touch with you, the best thing to have Told him is: I don't want to see you anymore, Instead of letting loose on the other end of it, and a Text tussle went on and on into another galaxy, and Now on top of felling 'Really hurt and sad,' even Obsessed with his Comebacks of even More of his Roaring rage. It's Criticism that occurred, tongue lashing that you didn't expect, but during a War of the roses, to sort of speak, you have to 'Expect' the worse when it comes to throwing even 'Texts' back and forth.
Move on now, sweetie. Try and not lose any sleep over it. Let his little lesson in Love and War teach you a lesson: Keep it light and semi sweet if you don't want your valuables to get practically stolen out from under you.
Good luck. xx1