Hi there, I'm just curious as to what people think and assume. My brother is in a similar situation to me so I was wondering if most people think this way or not:
My cousin set me up with this guy. I'm in college, he's not. Since I'm at school, we've only seen each other in person 3 times. We text pretty much every day, and he tries to call me every weekend (even though sometimes I'm too busy to talk).
We have never had the "what are we conversation." I like talking to him, but I'm not looking for a monogamous relationship because I am too busy and I don't want the pressures of a relationship.
He will call me just to talk about nothing, and it's kinda weird to me just because I'm not much of a phone talker (not much of a texter either really) But it got me wondering - does he view this as a relationship? I haven't been with / been on a date with anyone else, but would he get mad if I was?
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