Girls, can you give me tips on how i can become a bad boy?
Most Helpful Girl
Seriously, what "good guys" tend to overlook are 2 key things about bad boys/players.
1. Quality over quantity. What kind of girls do players pull? Girls who give it up to anyone. Do you really want a relationship with that? I know I don't. They have girls left and right, but again, these are broken, immature women. They don't know what they want in life. I know that would turn me off from a guy, no matter how sexy he is. What's more important, to jump from bedroom to bedroom? Or to have a strong, stable women to love you, care for you, always be there for you when you need someone? Think about.
Do you wanna be a player or do you wanna win the game?
2. Success rate. These bad boy guys only tell or show the women they did get. I can guarantee you they asked a lot of women and were rejected before they finally got a yes. The ratio of women asked out vs women who they got would be very unbalanced. Sure, they seem to have a lot of women, but that's because they ask out and get rejected a lot. If you ask 100 women out at a time, eventually like 8 or 9 will say yes. This is the badboy strategy. Good guy strategy, ask out maybe 1 woman at a time, and she could say yes or no. So assuming she says yes, that means the good guy had a 100% success rate. But he only had 1 girl, the bad boy had 8 or 9 girls, but 8 or 9 out of 100 is a 8-9% success rate. See the difference?
You need to ask people who are married or in long term relationships how they got it. Not players.
Let's pretend your goal is to find a good stable job. Would you ask a person who's had many jobs, but short term and jumps from job to job or would you ask the person who's stuck with their job for a long time and was even promoted for advice? Check the sources of your advice and you determine what's more reliable. Also, as cliche as this sounds, look within yourself.
"If she's worth it, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be worth it."4
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